Haphazard thoughts and ramblings

 Why does silence echo more than sound?🔉 Why is that happiness is what we intend to attain but it can't be that easily found!? Why is it that - we are all searching it in numerous things, while actually it is just hiding silently somewhere home bound!! Why do we tie happiness to some else and soar high, but it feels like peace, only when we touch the ground! And why, why does silence echo more than the sound!??🤫 #MidnightMusings 🖊️

 Count your blessings and discount those messy morons!☘️♥️

 My #RandomMusings 𝘚𝘤𝘳𝘰𝘭𝘭 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘢𝘳𝘬 - 𝘢 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘪𝘧 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦 , 𝘣𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘳 𝘰𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘶𝘴 🙂✌️ 𝘈𝘭𝘴𝘰  𝘚𝘤𝘳𝘰𝘭𝘭 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘵, 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 - 𝘢 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘬 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘨𝘰𝘵 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰, 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘮𝘦𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭 𝘮𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦, 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘥𝘰𝘰𝘮𝘴𝘤𝘳𝘰𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘪𝘮𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘭𝘺 𝘴𝘤𝘳𝘰𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘣𝘰𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘫𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘪𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘥𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘩 𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴!🙏 𝘎𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘕𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵!

 *Long post alert*. May seem like -- Emoticons - Uses and disadvantages ?(2 Marks)😛😆 Emoticons are good but not so great means to communicate, express or emote. I mean -- Is it a happy wow, mockery wow or a sad wow? Is that fiery ball - a sign of anger or resentment? Is it shock or disbelief, a sorry or sad, love or hate feeling?!! Is that a sick face or a worried face? Does like mean "liking something" or just acknowledging! For e.g. Some people like even the death notices of so and so👍🏻😛☺️😴😑😮 *Use some words folks! Express, record, type or talk - whatever suits. When there is a need for words, one must use Emoticons sparingly!😛* PS: I am not against emoticons. I immensely 🩷😘 them. I am only against this new trend where people are mostly mute and use emoticons instead of words! The only next worst usage in the chat lingo or anywhere on social n/w sites is "Nice" - nice pic, nice post, nice dress....nice this ....nice that😛 you know what?, if you wanna ...

  Present day Interactions:  When netizens aka social channel users/Friends promptly and silently watch whatever I write or whatsoever I post as a story or send as a forward - it feels like they are engrossed and watching my blockbuster movie and don't want to be disturbed😅😝. Whenever a forward is sent to me, it feels like a bucket of pop corn is passed to me, while they are still engrossed in my movie 🍿  This cycle goes on😆

 It is a weird world out there, A sad world where we search for answers in materialistic things We read books, we are stuck to screens and react only to the sound of pings! We check mobiles for updates and are always connected Our face to face conversations are always disconnected We are surrounded by so many bubbles of humans and we are unaware of the real humans around us We live to only be in our own shell and we lack insights in to others hearts A rule book, we abide by and think that every one else should do too What we do is good to us, and what we believe is only true! I wish to see a world where a human can be more human A world where you can love, laugh, talk, listen and live as one!

Parenting : cuddles, kisses, hug attacks, baby scent, silly games, hearty laughs, singing non rhythmic rhymes and lullabies, narrating stories, cozy sleeps and goof ups Also parenting: Smelling the diaper, checking the poop color, keenly checking the baby to see if it is just fart or poop, mud or biscuit, just water or pee! A muddy house, midnight play hours, scattered toys, perennial house clean up, begging the baby to have at least a few bites, eating left overs and losing it once in a while! But all in all it just fits in♥️ There is no yin without yang ☯️ #LifeofaParent #babymemories #Motherhood

"Ache logon ke saath hamesha acha hi hota hai" - ye hum sab ne suna aur wo Sach ho na ho, man hi man maana par the million dollar sawaal is- "Bure logon ke saath bhi hamesha acha hi Kyu hota hai?🤔! Roughly translates to: Good people get good things - we all have heard it and whether it happens or not , tried to always believe it, but the million dollar question is - "how can bad people always get good things?"  What's even the point of being good!? #philosophy #midnightmusings #lifequestions #Sleeplessness

"It is so strange, the hollowness of the world. It thinks it is full, but it is shallow and sold! Brims with plethora of feelings and expresses everywhere, everything. Still sits and broods in a shell able to comprehend nothing!!" It is so so strange, the hollowness of this world... Note: This is what happens when I work late nights. The poet in me wakes up  :)  If you can read and understand these lines - a big hyfive, if you cannot - Your bad 

*Long Post Alert* It takes a lot to appreciate. To appreciate truly one should have a real impartial outlook, not influenced by external factors. It is easy-peasy to pull a person down and show his efforts in dim light. All you need to do is keep your esteem lower and lower and team up with grouches similar to you and revel in the aspect of pulling the Singleton down! A person who really is positive and wants to appreciate notices the right & highlights it undermining the wr ong. A person who really is a pessimist jerk never misses an opportunity to pull u down . Some sample conversation snippets where a grouch can pull u down! 1.) I am a new mom Reply : oh that’s why you bloated . You were thin last year ? in the repeat mode  2.) I finally managed to finish so and so task in this this way Reply : that’s the crappiest way. Follow my way. It is tested in labs and experimented on Guinea pigs. It always works 3.) I simply feel happy today Grouch thinking h...

Logic and emotion are inseparable friends but they don't make a great team. Either of them should take the lead to solve a situation. Emotion in some form like an ambition or a passion, has the power to make u think logical but logic rarely wins when it competes with a strong emotion ! Emotion can act as a driving force to Logic and stay with it but Logic if takes the lead , emotion dies! Logic needs a template, a profit / loss calculation, and proof but emotions need to be felt and have no hard and fast rule.! Thank god we still have emotions around us.If the whole world functioned on logic, it would have been destroyed long before we were born! 😶   # midnightmusings   # sleeplessness

In this revolutionary digital era, humans have started to live like bots or software tools with power up and shutdown buttons, with listed features, customizations and with trial versions and licenses. Once the trial version expires, the license mostly may not be renewed, the way it is with many other tools. Even if a renewal involving finances (read communication , expression and emotion here) is needed, always a short cut is applied (like knowing about a person via Facebook  status or other online activities    ) so that the least involvement becomes possible. The trial version expired- do you want to Renew ? Yes or No. You no longer want to receive any notifications - Unsubscribe here - (with no option to enter a reason is a bonus) have become our popular relationship goals & choices  keep up humanoids. "The Matrix" is yours to rule # RandomMusings   # Sleeplessness

It is funny when you make a conversation in the head but in real all you can do is just bear a stretch of silence. 😷 It is funny when all you plan is just silence but end up conversing all random things for hours ! 🤓 It is funny how what you speak is mostly never understood but only heard, with some vague responses in return.  🙄 It is funny how you feverishly wait for your chance to talk by playing deaf when the other person is speaking! 🤔 😖 It is funny how, communication is the Homo sapiens' biggest gift which makes it a unique species but ironically all the other species live in peace with minimal communicating skills!

This was my status update on facebook yesterday and obviously to do justice to this blog of mine, posting my random thought here :) Religion is a contest between microphones 🏆 🎤 ,a contest between various groups who want to prove their passion towards God by being the loudest possible in their voice or their acts.As the passion boils up, in the end it is always a ruckus of voices ! May God save him from himself !  Religion is a road show which doesn't end till the last breath of life. It is a constant effort of giving yourself an identity which makes you feel you are a part of something. Religion goes w ith you where ever you go. You are identified with it and some times "only with it " whether you wish for it or not ! The physics of religion is like below. It follows the 3 laws of energy with slight deviations  😊 1.) "Religion can be created but can never be destroyed." 2.) "Religion can be transformed from one form to another." 3.)...

Regrets - There are always few regrets with which everyone lives. Regrets of things said/ unsaid, things written / unwritten, things done/ undone, things liked / disliked, things loved & unloved. It gets tough to forget the regret! All one can do about regrets is to tend few, mend few, bend few and end few!  :-)

Today I am a bundle of love. This is your day to patch up with me and preserve the  bond in the trove! Today I may hug the worst of the people around and just  let it and let them go. Today I can make you smile and shower endless  happiness by just holding your hand! Today I will kiss the bygones a final goodbye and fall in  love with me, with no qualms! Today I wish & hope for a tomorrow which can be like  today! Because today I am a bundle of love...   😘 ❤ 😊

The world survives on show off . Love, laugh , smirk, scoff - every thing can b a show off! Honesty is the worst policy ever. Around you true people are fewer! A performance,even a dramatic one is appreciated here. Heart to heart conversations have no place and there is no place for a tear! In the battle of egos some times you win , sometimes you loose. When you are doing all this, love is hanging from a tight noose! Yes the world survives on show off and achieves peace only by the truce!! —  feeling shocked.

There are 4 Main laws of desperation which may lead to extreme confusion and may or may not necessarily follow a sequence 1.) your efforts are on but u take things light and hope things will fall in place  😳 2.)You are desperate to achieve something and it runs away from u  😊 3.)you are not desperate enough and try to counter the 2nd law but still it runs away from u coz u r not trying hard  😜 4.)Last and the worst - you are desperately desperate but the thing u wanna achieve runs to some one else ! These are Afshan's 4 laws of desperation which lead to a conclusion that it is tough to actually calculate how much is too much during the times of desperation  😁 😃 —  feeling enlightened. [Copied as is from my facebook :) ]

*Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end* :) - Anonymous- 

"Khabarein.. kuch der baad kabren banjaate hai par kuch Khabarein aise hote hai jo Kabron ko khod ke laash ko baahar nikaalne tak khud kabron me jaane ka naam nai lete. Kabhi khod nikaalte hai , kabhi zinde ko murda banaadete hai to kabhi bache kuche kankaal (skeleton) ko zameen ke aur andar bhejdete hai "